Living with other species is something that, in my opinion, most human beings don't do very well. The first thing they do is give the furry or feathery thing a nice human name and then stamp upon it their idea of what a person of that name is like and how it will behave and what it will believe etc.
When things go wrong in the relationship they usually go spectacularly wrong because somehow the furry or feathery thing doesn't have any intention of doing things in a human way.
Nice kind words, or alternatively cursing the thing, don't actually mean too much. Let's take dogs for example.
Dogs are:
- territorial,
- pack animals,
- a regimented top to bottom caste system,
- have confidence in habitual behavior and timetable,
- have a desire to scavenge, hunt, kill, and mostly like to eat huge amounts when it is available and are happy to go without for a few days after the 'big feed',
- are playful with other dogs even as adults,
- strongly sexual in their behavior (especially when left entire and often even when castrated).
Dogs are NOT:
- able to be put in strange places continuously without being trained to accept the situation by putting their faith in their human handlers,
- able to accept any old dog they have never met before or any other animal or bird that looks smells and acts outside of their experience,
- able to operate unless they have a 'boss dog' at the head of the pack OR they nominate themselves to be 'Boss Dog' and everyone else is happy with that,
- fluffy little wind up toys who will do your exact bidding at all times,
- able to function when there is no timetable of activity for them to hang on to,
- able to choose suitable times for their activities, toilet behavior or sexual behavior.
Most of the so called problems that people have with dogs relate back to those very pros and cons.
For myself I admire' the dog' as a species, as a helper, as a being I can co-exist with on the basis that he is a dog and I am a human being. My values are not his values, my behaviors are not his behaviors. I suppose looking at it with a bit of fun, it is a like having a friend who is a drunk and you are teetotal but you love them just the same, or the other way around if you wish.
The major problem that most people have is stopping the dog from attacking when it is cornered: attacking people, children, dogs and other birds and animals. As a human being this is totally abhorrent behavior, as a dog it is normal behavior. A human being's idea of being cornered or in a jam and a dog's idea of being cornered or in a jam are miles apart.
As a human being I might attack some other being because:
- I am confronted with someone taking away my freedom and I need to get past them,
- I am in a war with my fellows fighting for the freedom of my people,
- I am in a one on one contest with another creature and one of us will kill the other, or
- I have a need to take a life in order to eat.
Please remember we are dealing with nett basic emotions here (which is actually what happens when you allow other creatures into your life).
As a dog I might attack some other being because:
- I am confronted with some creature I do not recognise, I don't trust it and I don't want it to come any closer to me.
- I am in a strange place and the creature is stopping me from running to get to my safe place. It is blocking my access to my safe place.
- There is a creature making weird noises and screaming and it is behaving like it is going to die, it is flapping and running, I need to speed up it's death.
- This creature does not belong in my pack I need to give it a good scare off because if it comes closer my pack will be in danger.
- I am biting and chasing this thing and it is great fun and tastes good too.
As a human being I will try to outsmart my captor in order to escape. I will agree that going to war is the way I want my people to go forward. When confronted with a wild tiger it is just him and I - then I had better fight for my life and have a long knife because his claws are like razers. I have come from many millenia of meat eaters and I am happy to know that animals I eat have to die in order that I can eat. All of these things I actually think are completely normal.
As a dog living in a human pack, if I don't like any new person coming into my territory I will bite that person, and if I am in a strange place or separated from all that I know I will be angry and bite or I will huddle in a corner until some creature comes to me then I will bite. If the humans bring some other animal or bird into our territory then it might be the enemy so I will kill it. Sometimes it is something woolly or feathery and I chase it to see if it will run, but it doesn't, the stupid thing just sits there so I bite it to make it run and it tastes real good. So that is why the human being brought home the lamb, so I could have dinner. 'Oh for goodness sake dog couldn't you have waited till Christmas just like the rest of us so we could all have some'.
So, in my Opinion, these are the basic drivers of problems with those dogs who come to live with us and somehow don't fit in due to aggression that they perceive is perfectly normal, and they are right.
Hang on there. Those Dog and human traits of aggression are not that different are they. People do attack others or animals for illogical reasons. I can't answer for why human beings get into a violent mindset, however, my observations of dogs over many years has given me a little insight into the why.
I consider working Farm Dogs as normal as dog behavior gets. They are busy, fit and get adequate nourishment. Individual animals on small land areas do not get enough exercise, get far too much or far too little food and have no purpose or work.
These three things, in my opinion, represent a big chunk of the manic attack mentality in dogs. Who knows maybe the same applies to some human beings.
First: People please divorce your emotion of cuddly puppy from the need to train for a happy well adjusted and useful companion animal.
Second: Admit that your puppy shows aggression towards some things. It is normal for goodness sake. If your puppy is not aware of the difference between you and your family and the neighbours kids, then there is something wrong with it.
Third: Do not beat your puppy or dog for showing aggression to oddball occurrences in his life.
Fourth: Learn from the experts how to change your Puppy's aggressive behavior into a positive experience for all concerned and keep training your pup until it is two years old under many different circumstances and you will end up with a trusting companion who understands that you are Boss Dog and the decision maker for the Pack.
When I have the unfortunate experience of trying to train aggression out of a grown dog, I have no idea how many rules the handler has broken with the pup, how much confusion has been caused in the dog's simple reasoning processes and whether there will be a positive outcome.
When I get all those lovely pups coming to class at 12 weeks old and I get the handlers to enforce some gentle restraint upon their cuddly babies and I watch those pups starting to look to their handlers for information and 'what next Boss', I know that if we continue to train in this manner then these pups at least will be happy members of human society.
The other sad but true problem that we have with Dogs is that we rescue so many from such a wide variety of neglect and maltreatment. Some of those dogs will never be normal. They either have some brain damage or they have huge emotional trauma or both, and they are left subnormal in their response and reactions. Many kind hearted people try to bring some normalcy to these dogs lives. Sometimes it isn't possible and in order for life to return to normal for the human household, the dogs need to be euthanised. I don't like it either but it is an unfortunate fact of life and if you want to have animals as part of your environment then dealing non-emotionally with the facts of life is a very good life lesson for all...
In my job as Mentor and Coach for Dog Owners I see all sorts of wonderful and terrible things happening for Dogs. I always try to be fair and honest with my clients. I will always put in whatever the Owner wants when difficult problems arise. It is not helpful for me to say to people that it is 'Your Fault' although sometimes I might intimate that their behavior might be putting their dog at risk. I will also let my clients know if there is 'no further treatment' for their animal.
The percentage of dogs with Aggression Problems that I see is about 5%. This is remarkable and shows just how hard dogs try to fit into the human pack and how many really good laid back human beings are happy to have their Dogs making some of the decisions in their day to day lives and it works - amazing.




